Covert Narcissism

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Narcissism, Shadow 101

Emily was known among her friends as the quiet, thoughtful one who always lent a listening ear or helped others, often putting others’ needs before her own. She genuinely wanted to be there for her friends, but sometimes she found herself feeling unappreciated or unnoticed for her efforts. When her friend Lucas shared the news… continue reading.

Narcissistic Injury / Wound & the Dead Eyes

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Coping Skills, Narcissism, Shadow 101

After delivering what he believed was an outstanding project proposal, Daniel awaited for the rewards and positive response he felt he deserved. Instead, his boss pointed out a few areas that needed improvement. Feeling shocked and humiliated, Daniel’s mood shifted instantly – you could feel the coldness in the room, as if all the joy… continue reading.

What is Narcissism

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Narcissism, Shadow 101

Oliver always loved being the center of attention. He would captivate guests and acquaintances with exaggerated stories of his accomplishments, rarely allowing others to speak. When his friend Mia shared her own success at work, Oliver dismissed it, claiming it was insignificant compared to his achievements. He seldom acknowledged others’ feelings and often took credit… continue reading.

Narcissistic Smear Campaigns versus Authentic Victim Story Sharing

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Narcissism, Shadow 101

When Becky and Linda ended their tumultuous relationship, Linda couldn’t accept that Becky had moved on. Feeling rejected and threatened, she began telling their mutual friends that Becky had been unfaithful and manipulative throughout their time together. Linda exaggerated minor disagreements and fabricated stories about her behavior, portraying herself (Linda) as the innocent victim. Linda… continue reading.