“Am I aggressive as a woman, or did you not make me feel safe?
Am I aggressive as a friend, or did I see you f*ck over 10 other people so I’m expecting you to fuck me over?
Am I aggressive as a daughter or did you not be a parent?
Am I an aggressive ex-girlfriend or did you ruin my life?
Am I aggressive with my words, or do I just mean what I f*cking say?
Am I aggressive or did I tell you ‘no’ the first time and you wanted to question me on whether I meant it or not?
Am I aggressive or have you lied to me 30 times?
I’m not aggressive, I’m not.”
– Scar, TikTok.
Sometimes, we feel aggressive toward others, and often times as women, we are labelled as being “mean”, “a bitch”, or some variation. The real question is, however, are you really being aggressive, or are they infringing on your boundaries? Don’t apologize for needing to stand up for yourself and for standing your ground. You may not be everyone’s cup of tea, and even if they did, my dear, you’re champagne.
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